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  1. Forget the past.
  2. Do stuff.
  3. Talk to strangers.
  4. Stay in touch.
  5. Stop bitching, venting, and complaining. They don’t make you happier.
  6. Go outside. Vitamin D is better than drugs.
  7. Don’t expect it to last forever. Everything ends and that’s okay.
  8. Stop buying useless crap.
  9. Make mistakes. Learn from them.
  10. Spread joy.
  11. Don’t bother with people you hate.
  12. Don’t become someone you hate.
  13. Play the hand you’re dealt.
  14. Choose not to take things personally.
  15. Don’t put it off.
  16. Help is everywhere.
  17. Give without limits and expectations.
  18. Be enthusiastic, dammit. Being above everything makes you an annoying prick.
  19. This too shall pass.
  20. You are already enough.
  21. What would you do if you weren’t scared? Okay, now do it.
21 commandments instead of 12  (via seulray)
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Tony Porter: A Call To Men
"Tony is the original visionary and co-founder behind A CALL TO MEN: The National Association of Men and Women Committed to Ending Violence Against Women. He is the author of "Well Meaning Men...Breaking Out of the Man Box - Ending Violence Against Women" and the visionary for the book, NFL Dads Dedicated to Daughters.

Tony's message of accountability is welcome and supported by many grassroots and established organizations. He’s currently working with numerous domestic and sexual violence programs, the National Football League, the National Basketball Association, colleges and universities around the country. He has worked with the United States Military Academy at West Point and the United States Naval Academy at Annapolis.

Tony is an international lecturer for the U.S. State Department having worked in the Democratic Republic of the Congo, United Kingdom and Brazil. In addition, he has been a guest presenter for the United Nations' Commission on the Status of Women and has been a script consultant for Law & Order: Special Victims Unit." - (x)

THIS is what a men’s rights activist should be.